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Enabling people succeed in Life through meaningful guidance

Welcome to the new Podcast series -titled "Listen to Learn and Grow in Life"

This series holds tips and answers to the queries send in via email or through website 

The content scope and responses related to Personal Development and Growth.

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Find some insightful tips to build a solid foundation and make the right career choice

Even if you are about to start or want to make a shift (Transition) from your current job or role.

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In this podcast series, you will find information which will assist you choose and understand how Consultant,Counselor and Coach are 3 different professions and how each can assist in three distinct ways.

In this podcast series you will find information to use,when one find oneself overwhelmed with too many issues to address at a single time.

This podcast will be useful to address issues which create confusions .Connect to learn more.

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Hello Everyone ,
 
Welcome to another episode of Coach stories from the Coaching world"
In today's episode ,the story I would like to share with you is about When I Choose not to Coach
 
You must be wondering what with not coaching people ,after all it takes lot of effort before we get genuine sincere clients committed to Coaching .
 
As a Coach ,I have my share of struggles ,and on the top list is working on marketing campaigns to gain access to clients who would sign up for my program , and despite the hard work that goes into it ,I often come across special cases ,which initially left me very confused ,but with time I have come to learn how to deal with it 
 
After lot of thought process ,I finally decided to choose not to coach such cases 
 
If you are asking me why ?
 
It is because , clients who lack commitment cannot reap any results from Coaching ,regardless of expensive scientific tools or assessments one may use .
Commitment is key in Coaching
A change with commitment to change , is precisely where transformation takes place ,first with oneself and then with the co creative relationship we hold in coaching 
 
The case goes like this :
I had a prospective client ,who was in his early 50's ,intelligent yet very skeptical about the whole world ,and even i invested 7 goods hours trying to find a break through from the discovery calls , all that I could discover was ,He lacked commitment to transform and no wonder ,nothing worked after that.
Let me also mention these 7 hours were spread over 2 weeks 
The assessments ,tools ,questions,Socratic method,coaching frameworks all fell flat when the client refuse to accept feedback ,of the outcomes he encountered ,instead he felt,  he was entitled to perfection and was the only one who knew it all !
 
As a result - the agreement and coaching sessions both had to be closed ,but in a very tactful manner.
 
As a Coach the Lesson I learned - we cannot coach ,those who know it all.
 
So next time if you want to get yourself coached or are coaching someone ,always begin with a commitment and ensure it is from both the sides .
In absence of it , you might just end up like me ,with futile efforts ,lessons learned ,choosing not to coach such cases again.
 
 
That's all for today , thank you for being my audience and taking the  time to listen to my podcast series .
 
Look forward to connect with you again ,in another episode till then have a great time ahead.
 
If you have any questions ,comments or feedback , feel free to write it to mehnazamjad@guideadvice.org 
 
You can also visit my website, www.guideadvice.org  to gather more details 
 
In case you are interested  in any of my coaching programs ,check the link shared in the notes column
 
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Talk to you soon.
 
Thanks.
 
 
7 Questions to ponder and reflect upon, which could connect you to your dreams, your inner self!
  1. What do you really, really, really want?
  2. If there was a secret passion in your life, what would that be?
  3. If there was something you were avoiding and running away from, what would it be?
  4. What’s missing in your life -What do you yearn for?
  5. What ‘s your dream for this lifetime?
  6. What are you not ready to change yet?
  7. Who will you have to become to have all that you want?

 

 

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